tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post5443154077542308499..comments2023-06-21T07:07:15.648-07:00Comments on Parker's Fight: All the should havesHeather and Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16329671381026662912noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post-67111612828735754902011-04-13T16:30:24.761-07:002011-04-13T16:30:24.761-07:00Think of you guys often and praying for you. Love...Think of you guys often and praying for you. Love and hugs.Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13202621464167811581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post-87524674232014366962011-04-10T20:40:57.074-07:002011-04-10T20:40:57.074-07:00This made me oh so sad. I have to admit, I do clin...This made me oh so sad. I have to admit, I do cling to those memories of getting ready. I wish I had words to make it all better, all I can do is offer love and support.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06679832505983089584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post-15420187864317218942011-04-08T14:37:24.300-07:002011-04-08T14:37:24.300-07:00Heather~ I am so sorry that he is not with you, he...Heather~ I am so sorry that he is not with you, he should be, you should be making memories each day with him..but I do know that no matter what you did or did not do, you will always wander if it was the right thing.. If you would have had the nursery, you would have thought it was easier if you hadn't.. for instance, when we took Ella to the hospital the last time, I didn't take her diaper bag, I took nothing except her. I refused to have anything. when we left after she passed, I literally had nothing, empty arms, nothing to hold on to.. I think how I should have just taken the stupid diaper bag, because surely it would have helped to have something right? it sounds small and so petty, but I think our instinct is to do whatever 'makes it easier to deal with' and the cold hard truth is, nothing helps, I would have felt the way I did with or without the diaper bag. You would feel this way with or without the nursery or tons of stuff. You did what you and Adam thought was right at the time. You did your best with the horrible situation you were in. Parker knew you and Adam loved him and that is all that matters <3 You are a great mom, that is very obvious! ((hugs))Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07386710835021940223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post-72351966170886826172011-04-08T13:41:12.280-07:002011-04-08T13:41:12.280-07:00I love reading the honesty and emotion in your pos...I love reading the honesty and emotion in your posts, Heather. I know you struggled with decorating pre-delivery. Each of us struggles with this - to prepare or not to prepare? Thank you for sharing your feelings and helping newly diagnosed moms to know they are not alone and that decorating the nursery is ok. Zoe's nursery is STILL not complete as I was always afraid, and many days, still am. Love to you and Adam. Parker is loved, always.Staceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00236715948080857359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post-83094532816493654262011-04-08T07:18:04.647-07:002011-04-08T07:18:04.647-07:00Parker knows the great love you have for him, and ...Parker knows the great love you have for him, and it will never fade. I know the fear- I left all the tags on his clothes, just washed a few blankets. We didn't have a carseat for him when he was born, we knew we would have plenty of time before he could come home and use it. I know it's hard, but don't regret too much...you were dealing with it all the best you knew how, and you are a great mom!!! Hugs.Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02600206116551346643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post-12945413883182801882011-04-08T06:59:36.808-07:002011-04-08T06:59:36.808-07:00Oh Heather, how my heart just breaks reading this!...Oh Heather, how my heart just breaks reading this! Praying for you!Stefeniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04278714232697499851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post-12798333866615899102011-04-08T05:59:36.434-07:002011-04-08T05:59:36.434-07:00Heather,my heart aches for you as I grieve with yo...Heather,my heart aches for you as I grieve with you from afar...<br />You wrote that you hope a future heart mommy reads this, and I have. I'm sure I will benefit from this way in which you have generously shared such deeply felt emotions. Thank you.<br />Many blessings,<br />GinaGinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07574541913247940972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post-68448489649376328422011-04-08T04:23:31.829-07:002011-04-08T04:23:31.829-07:00Heather:Not a day goes by that I don't think o...Heather:Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and Adam's pain.It has to do with having my grandkids around me I guess.but I believe that someday...that nursery will be filled with laughter and good memories..we have faith in that.Family who has to go through that have got to be the strongest ever..I can't even imagine ...but just trust that someday you will have the opportunity to have memories..We love you guys..chaseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02071114546294966312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post-85708233291153172012011-04-08T03:53:17.706-07:002011-04-08T03:53:17.706-07:00Parker knows how much he is loved, I have no doubt...Parker knows how much he is loved, I have no doubt.BlessedMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11538746701334793519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2106730697143466211.post-24162362225512066902011-04-07T23:57:17.109-07:002011-04-07T23:57:17.109-07:00<3 love you heather<3 love you heatherKatie Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15165292801491273903noreply@blogger.com